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    What I did was whack, but...

    Post by Duff... on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:01 pm

    Was listening to some mid-aughts jams when I got to wondering.

    Is it worse for your girl/boy to cheat on you with your best friend or your worst enemy?

    This topic might belong in Dudes forum, I dunno.
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    Post by Duff... on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:02 pm

    Probably most interested in DJDee's thoughts on this matter, but alas.
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    Post by Soma on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:30 pm

    This thread definitely belongs in the Dudes forum.
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    Post by yancy on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:32 pm

    It's worse for her to sleep with my worst enemy. Sleeping with my best friend is a worse thing for him to do, imo. Assuming she has some tangible (even if completely selfish) reason to cheat, it's more understandable for her to cheat with someone comfortable, convenient, friendly. Fucking my worst enemy is just straight up evil bitch behavior.

    I can imagine a scenario where an otherwise strong relationship survives the friend cheat, although the friendship would be dead & buried.
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    Post by reuben on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:41 pm

    My wife is my best friend.
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    Post by Soma on Thu Mar 07, 2013 3:43 pm

    Such smooth advice. We should freeze yancy's pizzas at 69.

    I dunno I always felt like I'd only be annoyed w/ my partner in this sort of situation.
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    Post by Guest on Thu Mar 07, 2013 4:18 pm

    Probably my worst enemy. It would almost be exciting to find out just how much I can hate a person. I'd almost have to thank my enemy for showing me the extreme potential of my emotions.
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    Post by zappo on Thu Mar 07, 2013 5:08 pm

    Best friend is worse, in my opinion. That has happened to me, though, so my take on things can't help but be informed by that experience. Losing both my lover and my best friend and now having several worst enemies, which is what happened, was really tough; losing my lover, having a best friend from whom to get support, and still having a lone worst enemy sounds much better.
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    Post by Nick on Thu Mar 07, 2013 6:20 pm

    I don't really have friends but wouldn't her fucking your best friend make him your worst enemy immediately?
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    Post by Duff... on Fri Mar 08, 2013 10:48 am

    That's likely true.

    Uh sorry to bring it up, Zap.
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    Post by zappo on Fri Mar 08, 2013 11:25 am

    Nah, no need to apologize. It was years ago. Fuck 'em both! She got fat and he went to jail.
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    Post by Duff... on Fri Mar 08, 2013 11:47 am

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    Post by Ned Braden on Fri Mar 08, 2013 6:04 pm

    [quote="reuben"]My wife is my best friend.[/quote]
    This is where I stand. But if this wasn't the case, I'd say best friend transcends sig other. Worst enemy is much worse imo.

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