by WP64 Wed May 28, 2014 1:15 am
I actually can be a bit of a weird-o and reactionary about that kinda shit. Is DFW right that if you're vain you'll die a thousand deaths before they ever throw dirt over you? I sorta buy that. I try very hard to just accept the way my body is and have never really dealt with any severe self-consciousness when it comes to my appearance. That also probably has something to do with my gender and general apathy though.
I don't know. There are certainly benefits to women's sexual liberation but there also obvious drawbacks that are not at all the fault of the average, everyday woman walking the streets. Conservatives blab all the time about how we are creating a society of entitlement, which is egregious but not entire inaccurate. It just isn't necessarily fiscal entitlement. Even though that dude at UC-Santa Barbara was a sociopath there is something really fucking odd about a 22-year old feeling entitled to love and affection. That is sort of engrained into all of us a little bit.
I always try to think about how fucking hard it would be for me to have a daughter. It actually freaks me out. I mean, having a child must be the most incredible feeling coupled with the most crippling and terrifying responsibility. But that would be even more intense probably if I had a girl. Like yes, every girl should be able to walk down the street wearing whatever they want and never be subjected to any form of sexual/physical/emotional ridiculing or belittlement. And I would never, ever subject any woman to that sort of treatment. But it is an unfortunate reality that every woman should at least be weary of.
And I don't really think the best route towards gender equality and sexual liberation is to over-sexify (lol) everything. I'm not someone who cares that woman wear too much makeup or something. That is none of my business. But there is just a crazy amount of pressure for women to be 'hot' or 'sexy' or 'whatever' that starts at an incredibly young age. It's just kind of unsettling. I don't know.
There an increasing awareness on the DePaul campus lately about sexual violence. It's such a pervasive and fucked up problem. I don't know what I am saying anymore other than basically 'god damn it!'