going through some shit right now

I don't really know how to explain it really, but definitely a great post/av combo on the above.

Congratulations Coyote.

Soma wrote:Also, I know we share a birthday so I'm promising you a happy one in advance.

Waylon will be relieved that I didn't start a thread.

Now that I'm a middle aged dad birthday threads are just fine with me!

Nick wrote:You should throw a small family and friends celebration so you get some gifts and money. Then, guilt trip the old man into making up for the wedding by giving you some money for a sweet honeymoon.

Coyote, this would make your parents very happy. You'll understand when you're a Dad too.

reuben wrote:

Nick wrote:You should throw a small family and friends celebration so you get some gifts and money. Then, guilt trip the old man into making up for the wedding by giving you some money for a sweet honeymoon.

Coyote, this would make your parents very happy. You'll understand when you're a Dad too.

i already have talked to them about it. they will organize a family get together. friends are a separate party without my parents involved.

we are taking a low key honeymoon to door county, as flying may be unsafe for her at the moment.

also my parents i am sure will help a lot with stuff for the baby, like a crib, diapers, etc.

they don't know i put an offer on a house yet


one thing at a time. they are pretty much freaking out lol

In case nobody mentioned it yet, "dating her once a week" is one heckuva phrase.

coyote wrote:
probably saved them like twenty grand for a wedding/reception

Great minds think alike. Glad to have a brother in wedding spontaneity. And glad to have anything in common with Avec. Congrats dude!

having sex with a girl who is on the pill still freaks the fuck out of me, i'm so afraid of being derailed by fatherhood

congratulations on your new life avec, i hope you can build this partnership for happiness

avec! was thinking about you the other day while i left the office building and was walking through the parking lot to my car. i thought, "man, avec doesn't post much anymore. hope that dude is happy in the life he's chosen."

jasperness wrote:having sex with a girl who is on the pill still freaks the fuck out of me, i'm so afraid of being derailed by fatherhood

I've always trusted chemistry more than a paper thin physical barrier and just blasted away. But then there's the human error potential of taking a daily pill. Good luck!

I've had unprotected sex with women on the pill well over 1,000 times, through the years. No kids or abortions to show for it. Either I'm shooting blanks, the women were infertile, or science really does have all the answers.

much love to big daddy A

good to hear that one of the jdff/m-ontff diaspora prodigals is crushing it

zappo wrote:No kids or abortions to show for it.

That you know of.

Congrats & good luck, Avec.

Nah, I've only ever had sex with long-term girlfriends. Many, many, many times.

yancy wrote:

jasperness wrote:having sex with a girl who is on the pill still freaks the fuck out of me, i'm so afraid of being derailed by fatherhood

I've always trusted chemistry more than a paper thin physical barrier and just blasted away. But then there's the human error potential of taking a daily pill. Good luck!

that's what my brain tells me and why i do it but it doesn't leave one with the best sense of post-coital emotional security

Yeah but can you ever really trust a broad? If you get my drift.

women want babies and will stop at nothing to obtain them

raj gibson wrote:women want babies and will stop at nothing to obtain them

and men want to fuck anything that moves.

life is a magical dance!

jasperness wrote:

yancy wrote:

jasperness wrote:having sex with a girl who is on the pill still freaks the fuck out of me, i'm so afraid of being derailed by fatherhood

I've always trusted chemistry more than a paper thin physical barrier and just blasted away. But then there's the human error potential of taking a daily pill. Good luck!

that's what my brain tells me and why i do it but it doesn't leave one with the best sense of post-coital emotional security

I think at your age you should be strapping a magnum whether your partner on a pill or not.

My first girlfriend was on the pill and we never used connies. Terrifying in retrospect, but w/e yolo.

Duff... wrote:I think at your age you should be strapping a magnum whether your partner on a pill or not.

Yeah, he's probably a walking HPV dispensary. No offense, most people are.

Congrats Avec, this time the postal service really delivered a package.

of spunk!

Both the Chicago and the Colorado Riot Fest dates conflict with a long-planned 2-week Grand Canyon adventure.

http://blogs.citypages.com/gimmenoise/2013/06/replacements_reunion_riot_fest_chicago_report.php

Mats are cool and all, but Rocket from the Crypt's reunion set will maul Westerberg and gnaw on his bones. Really wish RFTC was playing a Chicago show outside of the festival.